* destroyed things:
   * headphones
   * succulent
   * plants ripped out
 * thrown away:
   * candles
 * bought new:
   * küchentücher
   * cleaning products
   * candle
   * trash bags (after throwing many plastic bags away)
 * house rules
   * heater on, window open
   * washing machine for only few things
   * dryer for only few things
   * lights on even though nobody is in the room
   * windows open for hours (rooms cool down)
   * folding clothes instead of hanging them
   * cleaning bathroom with too much chemicals (neighbors can smell it)
   * baby toys now smell like floor cleaning products
   * housdress forbidden, just wearing underwear forbidden
   * table always has to be set properly
 * baby rules
   * says clara is asleep but has open eyes
   * household has priority over baby
   * baby should cry itself to sleep alone
   * baby should be in a different room
   * you have to have time for the house, for the baby, for your husband, for yourself
   * I managed so why can you not?
   * I respect your opinion but if you tell them to me then we are bossy
   * everything needs to fit into a schedule
   * proudly tells the story where my brother was left outside and only found by our neighbor
   * we cannot carry clara but have to put her away
   * you make your baby cry because you are not calm
   * thinks that her experience invalidates ours
   * you cannot complain because I had it much worse
   * now that you have a baby, the environment and the climate is not important anymore