- destroyed things:
- headphones
- succulent
- plants ripped out
- thrown away:
- bought new:
- küchentücher
- cleaning products
- candle
- trash bags (after throwing many plastic bags away)
- house rules
- heater on, window open
- washing machine for only few things
- dryer for only few things
- lights on even though nobody is in the room
- windows open for hours (rooms cool down)
- folding clothes instead of hanging them
- cleaning bathroom with too much chemicals (neighbors can smell it)
- housdress forbidden, just wearing underwear forbidden
- table always has to be set properly
- baby rules
- says clara is asleep but has open eyes
- household has priority over baby
- baby should cry itself to sleep alone
- baby should be in a different room
- you have to have time for the house, for the baby, for your husband, for yourself
- I managed so why can you not?
- I respect your opinion but if you tell them to me then we are bossy
- everything needs to fit into a schedule
- proudly tells the story where my brother was left outside and only found by our neighbor
- we cannot carry clara but have to put her away
- you make your baby cry because you are not calm
- thinks that her experience invalidates ours
- you cannot complain because I had it much worse
- now that you have a baby, the environment and the climate is not important anymore